Hello all,

I am looking for any ideas (from very small to pretty big) for rewards and punishments for a sub who is not in the same location as his or her dom. For the background, I have set a high personal goal and my Dom has wisely and generously decided to discipline me to that goal. While we are in contact a great deal of the time via tribe and phone, i am not in the same place as him most of the time.

Thus far the main reward offered is spending time together, and the main punishment is further time apart or being disciplined by having to sleep apart when we are in the same home. These are very effective, but I was hoping you all with your diabolical imaginations might be able to come up with more ideas. This will be a much higher level of discipline and control than i'm used to, but its a limited time period... three weeks or so. I have requested that he keep spankings and other such play in the "rewards" category because i don't want to start acting out in order to get "punished" in play.

Thanks. ;-)
~bird.