i have enjoyed being trained to cum on demand. My exhusband did the bulk of the work, basically by manually making me cum while using his slected phrase again and again, until just the phrase was enough. Now the same phrase will still get a rise out of me... in fact i had a new lover discover my training and it was surprisingly easy to re-activate.

If you can generate the training, you may be able to command her from a distance. ;-)

The lover I played with last year, trained me to "Freeze!" at his command, so well, in fact, that he could slip it into casual conversation without warning and I'd still automatically respond. It was great for playing, because he could reposition me in any way, like a mannequin, while I focused solely on staring straight off into space, holding my pose and not reacting to anything until..."Unfreeze!" I love to be challenged, so it was something I worked hard at doing very well...and I was in great shape from constantly being frozen in positions that weren't exactly comfortable or easy to keep from falling over...while having to keep limbs steady but able to freely give way to any pressure exerted. And yes, a few times, I had to let myself fall when he'd freeze me off balance and didn't realize it until I fell like a mannequin. Sometimes he'd use "Freeze!" in conjunction with breath play, doll play, role playing or to make commands that I could either remember him telling me or not by his choosing.

The best part? Being frozen near climax while he'd slam himself into me, harder and harder, and not being able to bat an eyelash let alone make a noise or move or...cum...sometimes he'd unfreeze me while in the midst of cumming and I'd let loose with earth shattering waves (and screams - yeah, I can be loud! ;-) exploding through out my body only to be frozen within a few seconds, again...pounded in again and again. Some times, awhile later when we'd be recovering in sleep, I'd start having delayed orgasms...and I'd wake up cumming over and over again...which would wake up my lover...and...mmmm....

Kisses,
Ms. Scarlett ;-)

I love external physical restraint tools such as rope, cuffs, leashes, etc.
I also enjoy other types of physical/mental control as asking permission to pee, him holding/carrying my keys and phone when we go out; being required to check in whenever I visit alone with another man, etc.